St. Valentines Day (are you a kisser or a clinger?)

I got the following from an article in Jessie Duplantis's magazine "Voice of the Covenant":

"St. Valentine’s Day has grown to symbolize the world’s view of love - kisses, chocolate candy, poems and pledges of devotion. It represents love’s softest, most gentle side. It's sweet but not too strong. In reality, nothing could be further from the truth. St. Valentine was a Roman priest and physician who clung to his love for Jesus Christ in spite of persecution by Emperor Claudius Gothicus. It cost him his reputation. It cost him his career. It cost him his livelihood. Ultimately, when he refused to recant, it cost him his life.

The test of true love is not what is gained, but what you are willing to give. So what is the difference between carnal, worldly love, and strong, Godly love? It's the difference in being a kisser and a clinger. I discovered this while reading the first chapter of the Book of Ruth. Notice verse fourteen, "And they lifted up their voice, and wept again: Orpah kissed her mother-in-law; but Ruth clave to her."

Orpah was a kisser, Ruth was a clinger. Orpah kissed the woman, wept tears and said. "I love you!" See emotionalism? That's religion for you.

But Ruth was a clinger. She knew that Naomi served the living God, and she was determined to live among His children. Ruth put her past behind her. She left her home. She left her family. She left her country. Her love wasn't weak. She didn't know what the future held, but she was willing to pay any price.

The kisses, Orpah, is a perfect representation of the religious individual who walks into church crying, "I gave up everything!" They are willing to give up their own plans until the past begins to pull on them. Then suddenly, the past has more allure than the plan of God has for their future.

It's possible to go a long way toward Christianity and not be a Christian. Sadly, many people that go to church are not saved and have never met Jesus. They don’t understand Jesus, because Jesus wasn't a kisser. Judas was a kisser. Jesus was a clinger.

Orpah acted like Ruth. She did everything Ruth did. She wept, she bawled, she squalled and she walked out of the city with her mother-in-law just like Ruth did. But there came a point in time that it was evident that she was emotional religion. She hadn't had a vital change. She was a kisser. After that parting, Orpah's name was never mentioned in the Bible again.

Ruth clung to Naomi because she'd made up her mind. "I’m going to embrace this God, Jehovah. I may not understand all His ways, but I will accept them. I will live for Him."

You see her affections were set on things above. It is not what you say with your mouth, but what you are willing to do with your life that makes you a clinger. A clinger is one that has totally surrendered to God. I’m not talking about hasty resolution. God is not interested in rash promises. He is interested in a love so complete that it forgets those things that are behind.

Ruth turned her back on her past and moved forward with God. In those days, it was unthinkable for a Moabite to be in the Jewish race. Yet, God accepted her and used her in the linage of the Messiah. Why? Because she was a clinger.

I see a lot of kissers. They embrace the Gospel only for what they can get out of it. But they'll end up with nothing. But I have also known many great men and women of God that were clingers. They embrace the Gospel for the love of Jesus. Some are walking the streets of Heaven today because they clung to the Gospel of Jesus Christ and were obedient to His plan for their future. What about you? Have you determined in your heart to cling to God no matter what lies ahead? "

Give it all up and cling to Jesus. That's true love.

By George Konig
February 13, 2005
www.georgekonig.org

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